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Prohibitions While in the Cemetery

Of course we must have done something called pilgrimage. We either make a pilgrimage for our relatives or other family members or friends. The purpose of each pilgrimage is different, there are those who think of it as the last tribute and there is also the last meeting of the deceased and so forth.

Whatever the underlying reason for our pilgrimage is because of our good intentions towards the dead. But in this case we should not continue to commit various violations, which Allah has affirmed in the verse. Without realizing it, we often commit violations that are prohibited without our knowledge.

To avoid this, you really need to know about any restrictions that should not be done while in a burial place.

Prohibitions during being buried are:

1. Pray to other than God

The first prohibition that we must stay away from is when praying, it must be for God. All forms of worship can only be done on God, including praying, and should not be done except god. Both angels and prophets.

From here we can know what the mistakes of the pilgrims who are buried in burial are with the intention to ask for sustained sustenance, immediately get a mate, get a baby and so forth.

We must avoid this because this is wrong. If we ask for this when we are on a pilgrimage, especially if their intention is actually due to god. Of course this is very blamed because if our intention is because of God then it must be done the right way.

2. Slaughter in a burial place

The prohibition that we must avoid while buried is by not slaughtering in the cemetery. Even if we know that the act is very contrary to the Shari’ah even though the intention is because of god, especially if for the residents of the cemetery. If slaughter is carried out on the residents of the cemetery, then this includes shirk. For that we must avoid these actions, because it is very contrary to the Shari’a and is a shirk if it is done on the residents of the tomb.

3.Make the grave of a place of celebration

The usual celebration is a celebration of haul or celebration for the death of guardians and clerics. And usually to commemorate their deaths, there are often celebrations in their burial. Though this is not included in the teachings of Islam and even contrary to Islam.

The Messenger of god alone spawned his grave as a place of celebration, haul or place of visitation. Then what about other places, of course it is not allowed.

4. Elevate and build graves

We have encountered so many graves that were built so luxuriously, and we even find that there are better and more luxurious tombs than the mosque next to it made of wood. Even if we want to study the matter of religion, then we find many hadith which show the prohibition on building burials on graves.

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How To Maintain Family Relationships To Stay Harmonious

Of  course having a harmonious family is everyone’s dream. But of course it is impossible in family relationships to have good relationships. inevitably there are times when we experience disputes and problems, be it to a husband or wife, children, father’s mother or other family members. usually problems or disputes can occur only because of trivial matters.

But as much as possible we must avoid this so that there is no debate or dispute in the family. If there is no dispute, there will be a harmony of a happy family. Even though this might be hard to do, if you pay attention to the correct ways of carrying out the relationship, disputes will not occur.

Ways to keep family relationships in harmony:

1. Maintain communication between families

One way to make family relations harmonious is to maintain good communication between families. Because this communication is very important, if there is no communication in the family a problem will arise. And this can trigger a dispute or debate.

So that as much as possible we must be able to maintain our communication well between families. Both in terms of work and anything, we must discuss it first with the family. So that everything is clear and there is no misunderstanding.

2. Open each other

An open attitude will also make family relations harmonious. Sometimes we often hide something about our family, for example if we make a mistake or a problem occurs with us. But we are not open to our families and do not want to tell the truth.

This attitude is an incorrect attitude. Because this can also lead to disputes and misunderstandings. If something happens to us or maybe there is a problem in us. It’s best to open and tell everything that happened. Because with your family you can get the right solution.

3. Husnudzon

Husnudzon is a prejudiced attitude towards everything. We must also have this attitude in our family relationships. Because with this attitude that will make our family relations run well and harmoniously.

Because with a prejudiced attitude will trigger the occurrence of emotion and eventually a fight will just happen. therefore avoid this in your family contact. be huznudzon so that your family relations can run well and harmoniously.

4.Frequent gathering

Don’t bust each of us with other activities, but try to leave time together with your family by gathering together. With this condition, harmonious family relations will be established. Because with this incident, we can exchange thoughts, joke, and laugh together

5.Shared vacation

Sometimes we also need a holiday. But of course to do this activity we do not do it alone, but we must invite our family too. Invite all families to take a vacation. This activity will make the feeling of being happy and the mind becomes happy.

6.Submitting each other When we are at odds with both our brothers and our parents, then as much as possible we are willing to yield. Losing does not mean we lose, so don’t assume that if you lose, you will lose. In fact, giving in is a good start in improving relationships Therefore make it a habit to succumb to circumstances when you are at loggerheads, never assume that giving up means losing. Because for the sake of achieving harmony in the family, sometimes we have to lower our ego.

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